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Scat

ScatAlso known as 'brown' or 'dirty', scat is about getting turned on/ excitement and/ or sexual pleasure from playing with shit; including smearing it on the body, eating it, exchanging it, and/ or watching others do the same. Reasons why guys are attracted to this scene vary and include any of the following:

  • Challenges and break one of society's most tightly held taboos: that the arse is dirty, shit shouldn’t be played with and should be disposed of cleanly.
  • Generates an overwhelmingly/ instinctive negative reaction in others.
  • Breaks boundaries, crosses lines, and explores the extreme.
  • Power and /or control of shit play in consensual and non-coercive scenes.
  • Humiliation and/ or degradation (shitting on someone else and being shitted upon).
  • Noises made during shitting.
  • Physical sexual arousal felt during the release of letting shit go.
  • Smell, temperature, and texture.
  • Sharing a special bond with like-minded guys.

Without boundaries or inhibitions, some say it is the ultimate in sex. Even if scat disgusts and repulses you (and we're not a fan of it at MEN R US... as far as we know) who is to say it's not another variant in human desire, regardless of how it fits in with society's taboos or expectations of what is normal and/ or acceptable. Perhaps it's more about degrees, and while most of us have clearly defined boundaries about what we will and will not do sexually, there are some men who look at this sort of stuff differently. BTW: Gay men do not have the monopoly on this practice; in fact Internet searches would suggest otherwise (think of girls and cups!)

In the sciences, scatology or coprology is the study of faeces (shit) within the animal kingdom generally; eg: finding out the health of a creature and where it has been from its shit. Scat is derived from Greek skat (faeces/ excrement) and/ or scearn (dung) in Old English. Coprophagia or coprophagy would appear to derived from the Greek copros, "feces" and phagein, "to eat".

Guidance

Before play: Hepatitis A and B vaccinations are essential. Consent, boundaries and a safe word should be agreed before play. Eat and drink (water) sensibly before and after play. Regular laxative use for play is not advisable as this may result in dependency, and lead to malnutrition, dehydration, constipation or haemorrhoids.
Infections: Shit contains bacteria, bugs, fungi and other organisms (eg: E. coli, salmonella, giardia, shigella, campylobacteriosis, and parasites) and can contain STIs (eg: hepatitis, syphilis, gonorrhoea). Blood in shit poses a risk of blood borne viruses (eg: HIV, hepatitis C)
While they may not cause symptoms for your partner, they may cause you severe illness if you pick them up, especially if you have a weakened immune system.
Skin: Shit on broken skin allows infections a direct route into the bloodstream. Shit on unbroken skin poses little risk if neither you or your partner has infections, but keep away from all mucous membranes (eyes, nose, mouth, cock, vagina, arsehole) and/ or open cuts during play.
Eating: While eating your own shit isn't necessarily poisonous, it can make you very sick. Eating someone else's shit can greatly increase your risk of parasitic, bacterial, and viral infections.
Afterwards: Clean your self thoroughly with antibacterial soap, ensuring hands/ fingernails/ under fingernails are scrubbed scrupulously.

When to consider help

  • When nothing else arouses you sexually and you can only engage in shit play to feel sexually satisfied.
  • When you find yourself fixated/ obsessing on the play and/ or missing out on everyday activities such as work and your social life.
  • When you find yourself being coerced into play when you don’t want to, or you coerce others.
  • When you find yourself feeling annoyed/ irritated/ upset/ resentful if your partner(s) won't play or play on 'your' terms.

Coprophilia | Wikipedia
Scatology | Wikipedia
Manscat | manscat.com

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